New Discussion Group
I’ve posted once before on CafeMom and what a good place it is to hang out and get some good advice on parenting teens-or to ask for advice from other moms if you need it. I’ve started a discussion group there called Moms of Teenagers. I’m happy to say that the membership has been steadily growing and there have been some interesting topics have been brought up by members.
I want to share one of those topics with you here and find out if any readers of this sight have anything to add to the discussion. A mom of two teenage sons recently posted this:
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“My name is Dana, and I am “Mom” to two teenage boys ages: 15 and 19. I need some advice regarding my fifteen year old. He has a girlfriend that he has been “dating” for a little over a year now. It started out innocent enough - he could barely even talk to her. I was friends with her mother and he was also friends with the girl’s younger brother. The problem I have is, the girl is way too controlling, and my son for some reason allows her to be this way towards him. Even his friends notice the short chain she keeps him on, but yet he still continues to be led around like a puppy! He doesn’t do anything with any other friends and gets angry if I don’t allow him to see this girl almost every day. It is causing a strain on my repoir with him which in the past, has always been good.. Please advise.”
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Have any of you out there with teenage sons or daughters faced the “too-controlling girlfriend or boyfriend” issue yet? Please share your thoughts on handling this. Or maybe you faced that issue as a teen yourself and could talk about how it turned out for you.
I’d also like to invite Char over at Weary Parent andGayla’s Place to join in on this discussion. It would be great to have some input from fathers as well.
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