As the mom to two (TWO! How did that happen?) teenagers and one rapidly entering that ‘tween’ stage (groan), I’m right smack dab in the middle of “OMG Life is so HARD” land. And it is hard - being a teenager, that is. You want all the independence you think you deserve, yet you still want the safety net of knowing Mom and Dad can and will rescue you if you mess up. It’s a constant struggle between doing what you want, vs. what you need to do/we want you to do.
It’s the epitome of “Life sucks.”
I’m not a big fan of self-help books, of meetings and groups, or people telling me how to do things that I know I should be doing but don’t want to do. I know, it makes me sound like a teenager, doesn’t it, in all my petulant glory, and why is she writing this blog then anyway, right? But it doesn’t mean that I don’t like to help when I can, or just talk and present anther view, or even listen when someone needs a shoulder to lean on.
That’s why I like the Chicken Soup for the Soul® series. Their real stories, of hard times and happy endings. I’m a happy ending type of girl, after all. There’s always something in there that reaches out and grabs you, and reminds you that you’re not alone. They are easy reading, they don’t slam solutions at you, they’re written by real people talking about things that happened to them, and let you come up with your own solutions in your own time.
All this to say that when Phenix & Phenix approached me and asked if I’d like to host a giveaway for the Teen Talk Series of Chicken Soup for the Soul® - I jumped at the chance! That’s how I ended up with four books in my hot little hands: Teens Talk Relationships, Teens Talk Tough Times, Teens Talk Growing Up, and Preteens Talk. And while they are in my hands right now? I want to deliver them to YOU, instead of keeping them all for myself. (mine mine mine! …wait. ok. yours.)
So, in the interest of easy contests, here’s what we’re gonna do. Every comment that you leave on this entry, will enter you into a random drawing for one of the four books. You don’t have to say anything profound in your comment (ME ME PICK ME! works..), or flatter me endlessly (though you know what they say about that…) but if you’d like to leave a little tidbit about your life with a teenager, or being a teen, or ask me questions about me and mine, please do!
I’ll leave the comments open for a week - starting today, September 18 through next Thursday, September 25th, at midnight Alaskan time. (That’s PST -1). The following Friday, September 26th, I’ll use good old Random.org to choose the winners. First drawn gets their choice of the four, second the choice of three, third the choice of two, and fourth gets the last book. I’ll then ask the winners for their choices, their addresses, and send the books.
After the cut, you can read more about the individual books, to help you make your decision on which you might want to choose if you win. So comment away! Tell your friends, spread the word, and join in! It’s a Parenting Teens Comment Party!
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